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The Childhood Trauma That Shaped Your Attachment Style Without Consent
Relationships Jillian Ellison, LMFT 156597 8/19/26 Relationships Jillian Ellison, LMFT 156597 8/19/26

The Childhood Trauma That Shaped Your Attachment Style Without Consent

You did not choose the first relationship rules your nervous system learned. This guide explores how early protection can become adult pursuit, withdrawal, pleasing, control, or shutdown—and how repair can create a different relational future.

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Self • Relationships • Systems

Focused care.
Shared learning.

Safety. Trust. Power.
Choice. Connection. Agency.

Private-pay EMDR intensives and kink-affirming educational workshops.

Jillian Ellison, LMFT 156597
EMDRIA Certified Therapist™ La Quinta, California • California telehealth

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    No insurance billing.
  • More Than a Safeword Workshops Live online education for individuals and couples.

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